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eTips: Daily Engagement Messages for December 2023
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Sunday, December 17, 2023
Unwrap holiday meanings for your child
Holidays offer lots of fun activities and chances for families to create bonds and learn together. This season, set aside some quiet moments to talk with your child about the meanings of the holidays your family celebrates, and why you do what you do. Spend some time reading books together about December holidays such as Christmas, Hanukkah and Kwanzaa. Can your child think of a new holiday tradition your family can start? -
Saturday, December 16, 2023
Engage your child in active thinking
Here are four ways to help your elementary schooler be an active thinker: 1. Encourage your child to ask questions. Then listen and take the questions seriously. 2. Ask your child to find facts to support opinions. 3. As you and your student go about daily activities, encourage guessing about how things work, and then try to find the answers together. 4. Challenge your child to make estimates: "How long do you think it will take to do this math?" -
Friday, December 15, 2023
Listen to your child…and to the teacher
It's important for children to feel heard and believed. If your child tells you something a teacher did that seems unkind or unfair, you should listen. But don't assume the incident is as bad as it sounds. If you are concerned by what your child says, contact the teacher. Calmly express your concern and ask for the teacher's point of view. If there's a problem, work together to solve it. -
Thursday, December 14, 2023
Create a checklist for a smoother morning
Even children who wake up early may have trouble getting ready for school on time. But a little bit of planning can make your morning routine less hectic. Make a list with your child of things that must be done each morning before anything else. Post the list and a pencil in a handy spot, and let your child check off tasks after completing them. Your elementary schooler will start the day with a sense of accomplishment. -
Wednesday, December 13, 2023
Encourage responsible behavior three ways
Families want children to learn to make responsible choices about school and life. But constant direction and criticism can wear kids down. To encourage positive behavior, say thank you when your child behaves responsibly without being told. Praise efforts, not just outcomes. And encourage involvement in hobbies that keep your child busy. Busy kids need less external control than those with too much time on their hands.
eTips: Daily Engagement Messages for November 2023
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Thursday, November 30, 2023
Encourage attempts at independent learning
Some children can become too dependent on family help with schoolwork. To offer support while helping your child become an independent learner: Explain that one of the things students must learn is to do their own schoolwork, and you will help. Then, select one section of an assignment for your child to try alone. Make sure your elementary schooler knows what to do, then leave the room. If the work is totally wrong, explain the concepts again. If the work is fine, have your child do another section. -
Wednesday, November 29, 2023
Try pro tips for tutoring your child
Teachers do all they can to help students learn. But there may be times when your child also needs your support with schoolwork. Ask the teacher to suggest materials you can use, such as books or flashcards, and the best ways to help. Then, when tutoring your child, praise effort and correct responses. After an incorrect response, give the correct answer and ask your elementary schooler to repeat it. End tutoring sessions after 10 or 15 minutes, and keep a chart of your child's progress. -
Tuesday, November 28, 2023
Replace perfectionism with more productive thinking
Some children can be very hard on themselves. They feel like failures if they aren't the best. To ward off this perfectionism, set reasonable goals for your child and relax about normal mistakes. When your child is self-critical, don't brush it off. Instead, discuss it. Remind your child that no one can be perfect. Point out your student's strengths, and encourage the use of affirmative self-talk, such as "I'm proud of how hard I tried." -
Monday, November 27, 2023
Let your child learn from schoolwork choices
Offering some choices about how to do assignments can reduce friction over schoolwork. Doing the work isn't optional, but you can let your child decide things like: whether to work alone or near others, whether to start right after classes or after relaxing a bit, and whether to start with math or reading. Experiencing the consequences of a poor choice will help your child learn to make a better one next time. -
Sunday, November 26, 2023
Trade places to promote understanding
The next time you and your child have a disagreement, try switching roles. After things calm down, ask your child to pretend to be the parent while you pretend to be the child. Then act the way your child was acting, and have your "parent" explain why you should behave differently. Try to convince your "parent" it should be OK for you do as you want. You'll have some fun and each get a better idea of the other's point of view.
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Tuesday, October 31, 2023
Explain the steps for managing anger
Anger is a natural emotion. But kids need to learn how to cope with strong feelings like anger without lashing out. Explain that if your child feels anger rising, it's a good idea to step away from the person or situation if possible. Then, your child should try to figure out what is causing the feeling. When the feeling eases, your child should discuss the issue calmly, listen to the other person's point of view and compromise if necessary. -
Monday, October 30, 2023
Predictable books help kids connect with reading
Children who are just learning to read benefit from books that help them along. When you choose books for your child, look for text with rhythm and rhyme, and repeated words and sentences. Predictable plots and events that follow a natural time sequence make it easier for young readers to follow the story. A plot or character your child can relate to will boost interest. -
Sunday, October 29, 2023
With your help, your child can do great things
Research makes it clear: All families, no matter the adults' own level of education, can help their children succeed academically. To do it, set high (but still realistic) goals for your child. Then stress the importance of persistence, and praise effort and progress. Be firm about limits and enthusiastic about school. Show respect for your child's ideas, and share your family's values. -
Saturday, October 28, 2023
Help your child check for writing quality
Before your child hands in a writing assignment, review it together. Help your child think about the answers to this checklist of questions: 1. Does my writing make sense? Are the facts correct? 2. Does each paragraph connect logically to the ones before and after? 3. Are my sentences complete? Do subjects and verbs agree? 4. Are all the words spelled correctly? Are any overused? 5. Is my final draft neat and legible? -
Friday, October 27, 2023
Show your child what subtraction looks like
If your child is having difficulty with subtraction basics, try using paper clips to show what subtraction looks like. Suppose your student must subtract 8 from 16. Make a chain of 16 paper clips. Have your child count them. Then your child can count again as you remove eight clips, one at a time. Finally, have your elementary schooler count the remaining clips. Visual aids like this can help students get a clearer idea of math concepts.
eTips: Daily Engagement Messages for September 2023
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Saturday, September 30, 2023
Simple ways you can help with writing
How can you help when your elementary schooler has a writing assignment? It's fine to help your child brainstorm about a topic, but let your child do the choosing. You can also answer a question or two about how to spell a word, and offer praise when your child uses interesting words appropriately. Then, encourage your student to find and fix errors ("I see a place in the first paragraph where a sentence should end. Can you find it?"). Finally, urge your child to write a neat final copy. -
Friday, September 29, 2023
Teach techniques for calming down
Children who don't know how to calm down when they are upset can develop academic and social problems. If stress, disappointment or hurt feelings have your child worked up, teach some coping strategies: Your child could go to a bedroom to regroup. Or could share feelings with a trusted person. Tackling a chore can help your child burn off energy and feel good about completing a task. And your child can always ask you for a hug. -
Thursday, September 28, 2023
Celebrate, support and reconnect at bedtime
Is your family trying to do so many things that it is hard to keep track of one another, even in the same house? Stay connected by gathering each night in a bedroom. Take turns sharing one positive thing from your day. Share a least favorite thing, too. Your family will be able to celebrate the positives together and help one another deal with any tough stuff that comes along. -
Wednesday, September 27, 2023
A bookmark can help your child read smoothly
To help your child improve choppy, disconnected reading, get out a straight-edged bookmark. Placing the bookmark under a sentence will help your child learn to scan the entire line instead of reading word by word. Don't worry about the bookmark becoming a crutch. When it is no longer needed, your child will set it aside. Taking it away too soon won't help. -
Tuesday, September 26, 2023
Explain that effort is the way to get smarter
One of the most important messages you can give your child is "Smart is not something you just are. Smart is something you can get." Children who are willing to work hard at a subject often learn more and better than bright students who don't apply themselves. By studying, practicing and learning from their mistakes, they get smarter, and their successes lead to more success.
eTips: Daily Engagement Messages for August 2023
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Thursday, August 31, 2023
Help your child practice reading to learn
Reading nonfiction is an important way students learn. A strong ability to remember what they read is essential. To strengthen this ability, encourage your elementary schooler to preview the text by reading the main headings and scanning the pictures. Next, your child should read the introduction, summary and any questions that follow the passage. Finally, have your student read the chapter itself in short sections, making sure to understand each section before moving on. -
Wednesday, August 30, 2023
Develop your child's inner motivation
Students who are motivated only by the desire to get a good grade rarely do more than the minimum they need to earn it. But students who are motivated from within are more likely to stick with a task and retain what they've learned. At the start of project or reading assignment, discuss what your child wants to learn from it. Along the way, ask your child to share new knowledge and celebrate progress. -
Tuesday, August 29, 2023
Name-calling is no joke
Children have called each other names for centuries. But it's wrong to think that there's nothing families or schools can or should do about it. Persistent name-calling, and name-calling with an intent to hurt, are forms of bullying. Teach your child that this behavior is hurtful. Don't accept "I was just joking," as an excuse. Voice your disapproval when you hear your child or anyone else putting another person down. -
Monday, August 28, 2023
Start routines to make school mornings smoother
Getting back into school mode after a long summer break can be a challenge for some children. To help your child make the transition, establish some daily routines. Explain the tasks you want your child to do and post a schedule so your child knows what to do when. To further boost independence, use silent signals sometimes, such as a gentle touch on your student's shoulder to indicate that it's time to calm down or pay attention. -
Sunday, August 27, 2023
Reinforce the need for timeliness at school
Families juggle lots of commitments, and it isn't easy. But for success in school, it's important for your child to be in every class on time and ready to learn. Children who are on time are more inclined to take school seriously. On the other hand, allowing children to be late sends the message that school isn't that important and that rules can be broken. Reinforce the need for timeliness with your elementary schooler. Show how you plan ahead to be punctual, and make it clear that you expect your child to do the same.
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Monday, July 31, 2023
What to say when the news is scary
Scary things happen in the world, but families can help children process frightening news. Monitor what your child sees and hears on the news. If your elementary schooler is frightened, find out what your child already knows. Kids' fears may be very different from the truth. Explain that you and other adults will do all you can to keep your child safe, and point out the people who help in scary situations. By listening, you show your child that you are a safe person to talk to about anything. -
Sunday, July 30, 2023
Get set before giving your child a pet
Caring for a pet can build children's sense of responsibility, but only if they are capable of following through. Before agreeing to your child's request for a pet, talk about the responsibility involved. Discuss the specific tasks your child will be responsible for together. If you think your child is ready to carry them out, make it easier by linking the tasks to daily events in your elementary schooler's life. "The cat gets fed before you eat breakfast." -
Saturday, July 29, 2023
Help your child learn from disappointment
You can't protect your child from disappointments. But you can teach how to cope with them, and even grow from them. First, ask how your child is feeling, and acknowledge the feelings. Then ask questions about what happened, so your child can understand the experience. Don't try to "fix things" for your elementary schooler. Instead, help your child explore options by asking "what if?" questions. -
Friday, July 28, 2023
Establish a school-year sleep routine now
Getting your child into an effective sleep routine now will make school day mornings easier in the fall. Set a bedtime, and stick to it every night. Children who stay up later on weekends have more trouble resetting their internal clock on Mondays. Be sure to build in some quiet time before bed, when your child can read. And don't negotiate. If bedtime is 8:45, don't give in to pleas of "five more minutes." -
Thursday, July 27, 2023
Try Grandma's rule for good behavior
It is important to establish clear guidelines for your child's behavior and to enforce consequences consistently. Ideally, consequences should be more positive than negative. Remember Grandma's rule: "When you have done what you are supposed to do, then you may do what you want to do." Always phrase it positively: "You can play a game when you finish your chores."
eTips: Daily Engagement Messages for June 2023
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Friday, June 30, 2023
Keep math skills from sliding this summer
Students who don't do math over the summer risk losing months of skills. Helping your elementary schooler practice math skills all summer is critical. Here are just a few fun ways to add math to your child's day: Have your child use a map key to calculate the distance between home and the places you go, then track the actual mileage. Add the digits on license plates outside and see who can get to 100 first. Play cards and board games that use number skills. -
Thursday, June 29, 2023
Say 'You can do it,' and your child probably will
Children often say they can't do something—even before they try. What they need most is a little encouragement. Express confidence in your child's ability to learn. Say things like: "Just try it. You're usually good at this kind of thing." "This is challenging, but I know you can do it if you don't give up." "You've learned hard things before, and I'll be here if you need me." -
Wednesday, June 28, 2023
Listening shows you care what your child thinks
A positive self-image helps give children the courage to take on challenges. One way to boost this sense is to listen when your child talks. You don't always have to agree with what your child says. Just by listening, you help your student feel respected. Make eye contact, nod and smile, avoid interrupting. Then let your child know you expect the same treatment when you're talking! -
Tuesday, June 27, 2023
Clear rules help eliminate arguments
You have a better chance of eliminating conflict between you and your child if you pick a calm, unhurried time to discuss any issue you are having. Then agree on a rule to address the issue in the future. For example, your child must read before having recreational screen time. Post the rule where you both can see it. When the situation next arises, you can just point to the rule and avoid an argument. -
Monday, June 26, 2023
Combine a fitness walk with a family talk
Regular exercise is proven to boost learning. So is family engagement in education. But finding time for both when you are also working can be a challenge. Here's a suggestion: Combine a fitness walk with a family talk. Each evening, set aside 30 minutes for a brisk walk with your family. During this time, you can reconnect and catch up on what your child is learning and thinking about.
eTips: Daily Engagement Messages for May 2023
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Wednesday, May 31, 202
Celebrate progress and set new goals
As the end of the school year approaches, take some time to review the highlights with your child. What was your elementary schooler's favorite project? In what subject did your child improve most? What book did your child most enjoy reading? Celebrate all the progress your student has made this year. Then look ahead. Brainstorm together about something your child would like to learn this summer. Plan ways to help your child achieve the goal. -
Tuesday, May 30, 2023
Learning fractions is as easy as folding a napkin
Fractions can be fun to learn, particularly when kids can get their hands on them. To help your child see fractions in action, demonstrate how to fold paper towels or napkins into equal parts. Start with halves: How many ways can you each think of to fold the paper to create two equal halves? Move on to fourths, eighths and sixteenths. Let your child use a marker to label the fractions. -
Monday, May 29, 2023
A time log can help make choices clear
Most of us don't have a clear idea of where all our time goes. To find out, set aside one week to keep a family time log. Every half hour, record how you and your child spend your time. At week's end, you will have a clear picture of where your time is going. Are you spending too much time on things that aren't priorities? When you know that, you can make choices that are best for you and your family. -
Sunday, May 28, 2023
A party is an invitation to practice social skills
Kindness, consideration and friendliness don't always come naturally. One way to help older kids develop these traits is to let them "host" a party. Your child should invite people who will foster friendliness. Before the party, have a dress rehearsal. Review table manners and introduction methods. Help your child think of conversation-starting questions. The party will be a fun way to practice! -
Saturday, May 27, 2023
Your undivided attention is a priceless gift
Children crave their families' attention. It builds confidence that can help them face challenges. Experts recommend giving kids lots of GEMs: Genuine Encounter Moments. When your child has something to say, stop if you can and offer 100 percent of your attention. This is a GEM. Pretending to listen is not. Without GEMs, kids often start to misbehave. They would rather have negative attention than be ignored.
eTips: Daily Engagement Messages for April 2023
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Sunday, April 30, 2023
Learning happens when you include your child in your routines
You don't always have to set aside a block of time to teach your child. Just do the things you normally do, but do them together. Explain what you are doing. Let your child observe and ask questions. Let your child help you. Then ask questions that encourage thinking: "Why do you think I do it this way?" "If it takes 15 minutes for the food to cook, and we want to eat at 6:00, what time should we put it in the oven?" -
Saturday, April 29, 2023
Help your child choose words that motivate
Let your child know that negative thoughts and words can actually make tough times worse. Words like "awful" and "horrible" are often exaggerations that can make disappointments seem like disasters. If you hear, "This math is impossible," help your child restate the situation: "This math is challenging, but I know I can figure it out." -
Friday, April 28, 2023
A bedtime review can boost morning recall
After studying for a test, encourage your child to finish preparing by reviewing the most important information one more time right before going to bed. It shouldn't take long; 10 or 12 minutes should be enough. Your child's brain will keep thinking about the material even during sleep. The next day, your child may find the material easier to remember. -
Thursday, April 27, 2023
Consistency fosters self-discipline
Children develop self-discipline when they have a clear set of rules to stick to. When adults enforce the rules, kids may grumble, but they are usually relieved. Make your rules and expectations clear to your child, then be sure to offer praise when your elementary schooler lives up to them. And as your child demonstrates responsibility, allow more freedom. -
Wednesday, April 26, 2023
Play a simple game to build pattern recognition skills
Pattern recognition is an important math skill. To help your child practice, play Guess the Pattern. Provide the first three numbers in a simple pattern (1, 3, 5), and ask your child to tell you what comes next (7). Allow a few guesses, then supply the answer. Take turns giving each other patterns. Start with simple ones, and increase the challenge as your child gets older and learns more math.
eTips: Daily Engagement Messages for March 2023
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Friday, March 31, 2023
Help your child feel capable of doing hard things
Some kids are willing to try hard, even if the work is tough. Others give up before they get started. What's the difference? It's the kids who believe in their ability to succeed who stick with it. Make it clear that your child has what it takes to do well in school. Then remind your student that ability without effort won't get the job done. The combination gives your child the power to achieve goals. -
Thursday, March 30, 2023
Visit world-class museums without leaving home
Get your child excited about museums by taking an online tour of one of the world's great collections. Match your child's interests to the museum. A music lover can check out the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame at www.rockhall.com. Or go to www.si.edu to explore history, science and culture galore at the many Smithsonian Institution museums. New York's Metropolitan Museum of Art is at www.metmuseum.org. -
Wednesday, March 29, 2023
Help your child avoid plagiarism problems
Plagiarism is copying information or original ideas directly from another source without giving credit. Explain to your child that copying word for word is cheating, and it often results in a failing grade. Tell your child to read the information in the sources and "Put it into your own words." If your student wants to use a sentence word for word, it must go in quotation marks and your child must give credit to the author. -
Tuesday, March 28, 2023
Chores help children learn to handle responsibility
To encourage responsibility with chores, make sure your child has the skills and supplies necessary for the tasks. Next, consider your child's energy level; schedule chore time for a time when your elementary schooler isn't tired or busy. Then, let your child choose a chore from your list. Expect a good effort and timely completion, but don't require perfection. Just thank your child for helping the family! -
Monday, March 27, 2023
Take a creative approach to problem-solving
Children learn creativity by watching others. And when kids learn that there are often many ways to solve a problem, they learn to think creatively and become better problem solvers. So let your child see you tackle problems in different ways. Regularly create new solutions for old problems. Your child will learn that fresh thinking can turn up new (and sometimes better) approaches.
eTips: Daily Engagement Messages for February 2023
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Tuesday, February 28, 2023
You don't need to have all the answers
Parents sometimes worry that their children won't respect them if they don't have all the answers. But kids respect parents more when they admit they don't know something and say, "Let's find out." You don't have to answer questions immediately, either. If your child asks a difficult question when you are too busy to answer, say, "That's a good question. I'd like to think about it and get back to you at dinner." Then do. -
Monday, February 27, 2023
Send your child on a hunt for different letter styles
Young writers can be confused by the different ways letters appear when printed. Is "a" the same as "A"? Look through old catalogs and newspapers with your child and cut out uppercase and lowercase letters in as many fonts and sizes as you can find. Help your child sort the letters and paste all the examples of each letter onto a separate index card. Your child will learn a variety of ways each letter can look. -
Sunday, February 26, 2023
Encourage table talk at family meals
Experts know that casual talk at the dinner table helps families connect. Children who feel close to their families are also less likely to take part in risky behavior. But conversation is impossible when everyone is focused on a screen. So turn off the TV and other devices during meals. Instead, encourage everyone to share a success. Your family dinners may shield your child from trouble later on. -
Saturday, February 25, 2023
Get to the bottom of underachievement
It is possible for very bright students to struggle in school. When your child's performance in school is well below your child's ability, it's time to take action. First, talk to the teacher. Your child may be bored. Could the teacher assign a project that might provide an interesting challenge? Work together to find solutions. Outside school, look for activities that develop your child's strengths. If the situation continues, ask a doctor how to find out if your child might have learning differences. -
Friday, February 24, 2023
Use three jars to teach money management
Promote the savings habit by having your elementary schooler divide pocket money into three jars. The first jar is for change your child is free to spend as desired. The second jar is for saving for more expensive items that may take a few weeks or months to afford. The last jar is for long-term savings for big ticket items, like college, for example.
eTips: Daily Engagement Messages for January 2023
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Tuesday, January 31, 2023
Play the Try a New Vegetable game
To encourage your child to give a new healthy food a try, write the names of vegetables you have on hand on slips of paper. Repeat so you have two slips for each vegetable, and put the papers into a hat. Your child draws slips until getting the same vegetable twice. That's the one you'll serve tonight. Then refill the hat with slips numbered from 1 to 10 and let your child pick again. That number is how many bites of vegetable your child has to eat. -
Monday, January 30, 2023
Rewarding persistence can help establish study habits
Many skills children need to learn take time to master. But practicing times tables, vocabulary words or music scales isn't always fun. One way to keep your child motivated is to reward solid efforts. Stock a jar with small treats. Then you and your child can agree on the number of diligent practice sessions needed to earn a treat. As your child's skills improve, adjust the number upward to maintain the challenge until you can phase them out completely. -
Sunday, January 29, 2023
Finishing last is sometimes a winning move!
Some elementary schoolers race through tests to see who can finish first. And their grades reflect their hurried, incomplete responses. Remind your elementary schooler that it is important to take time to double-check answers. Your child may finish the test last, but grades will likely improve. -
Saturday, January 28, 2023
Discover the true stories behind local history
Is your street named for a tree or a famous person? How did your town get its name? What other questions can your child think of about where you live? Head to the library together and research some local history. Your child may enjoy looking at copies of your local newspaper from long ago. Encourage your child to find out more by interviewing some older citizens about their experiences. -
Friday, January 27, 2023
These student achievement tips are parent-approved
In a survey, parents of high achieving high school students were asked how to raise a child who is successful in school. Their top tips? Stay engaged and emphasize the importance of education. Take time to talk together and respect your child's opinions. Give your student an ethical foundation. Get involved with the things that interest your child. And let your child know your love is unconditional.
eTips: Daily Engagement Messages for December 2022
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Saturday, December 31, 2022
Get set to start the new year strong
As winter break nears an end, help your child gear up to go back to school! Together, set some new learning goals. Make a new activity schedule that includes enough time for schoolwork, reading and playing, too. If you need to, reestablish a reasonable school-night bedtime and revive a family reading time. And be sure to remind your child that school is important and you expect your child's best effort. -
Friday, December 30, 2022
Sometimes, 'no' is a positive thing to say
Is your life so busy you feel you don't have enough time for family or to help your child learn? You're not alone. This is a good time to review your schedules. Think of all the demands on your time and your child's. Then consider saying no to some of them. When you say no to some requests, you are also saying yes to more time with your child and doing what really matters. -
Thursday, December 29, 2022
It's always the season for sending notes to your child
Sending notes with lunch is a great way to encourage reading and make your child feel loved. Make your notes extra-special by reusing the seasonal greeting cards your family receives. Just cut off the colorful card fronts, flip them over and write caring messages. A winter scene with "You warm my heart" on the back can make your child's day. Add your own creative touches to the cards and use them all year long. -
Wednesday, December 28, 2022
Help your child learn how to get smarter
Studies show that people who believe in the value of hard work can face challenges, learn from them, and get smarter. When your child hits a learning obstacle, say things like, "I know you can do it. What else could you try?" Point out the effects of effort: "If you work on your project every day, you're sure to be proud of the result." Praise persistence, too: "You didn't give up until you figured it out! Your effort is making you smarter." -
Tuesday, December 27, 2022
Watch for the signs of school struggles
Low grades aren't the only signal that your child may be struggling in school. A child who suddenly doesn't want to go to school, for example, may have a problem with a classmate or a teacher. A child who starts blaming others for making it hard to learn, or says things like, "I knew I'd never be good in school," may be afraid of failing. If you see these signs, discuss them with your child, the teacher or a school counselor.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages for November 2022
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Wednesday, November 30, 2022
Offer support when your child feels challenged
Every stage of childhood has its challenges. But if you dismiss a challenge your child is facing as "just a phase," you may make it seem like you don't care. Instead, show support by asking your child to talk about what's going on. Listen without rushing to judgment. Then ask questions to help your child consider ways to handle the problem. You'll still need to correct inappropriate behavior, but your child will know you want to help. -
Tuesday, November 29, 2022
Are you an 'askable' parent?
Children are full of questions, and they will seek answers where they can. Being an "askable" parent is the best way to ensure that you will be your child's primary source of information and values. Tell your child you want to answer questions. Never punish, tease or judge your child for asking a question, and don't try to avoid sensitive or embarrassing topics. Instead, say, "I'm glad you asked!" -
Monday, November 28, 2022
Practice math and science in the laundry room
To reinforce your child's math and science skills, put them to practical use. Doing laundry together is one easy way. To practice observation, for example, ask your child, "Does this shirt feel different from that one? Why could that be?" Sort clothes by color or family member to help your child learn to classify. Encourage your child to quantify by asking things like, "Who has the shortest socks in the family? By how many inches?" -
Sunday, November 27, 2022
Help your child feel like a writer
To encourage your child to see writing as something fun to do, offer a supply of interesting paper, and pens and pencils in different widths and colors. Or demonstrate how to choose fonts and colors on the computer, and encourage your child to email friends and relatives. Display samples of your child's writing on a family bulletin board to send the message, "I believe you are a writer." -
Saturday, November 26, 2022
Teach your child to respect the world all around
Students need to learn to take respectful care of items around them: their own, the school's and other people's. One way to teach this behavior is to involve them in caring for the environment. Ask your child to think of things your family could do to protect your corner of the world: planting trees, recycling, etc. Suggest activities to match your child's interests. If your child likes animals, for example, help find out more about their habitats and what can be done to preserve them.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages for October 2022
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Monday, October 31, 2022
Math makes sense when you spell it out
Writing numbers out in word form is a good way for your child to understand the mathematical concept of place value. Write a list of four or five numbers, such as 562, 73, 184, 16 and 43. Have your child write them in words: five hundred sixty-two, seventy-three, and so on. Then try it in reverse. Write down the words and ask your child to write the numbers. -
Sunday, October 30, 2022
Talk with your child about school safety
Families have an important role to play in making school a safer place. Start by talking to your child about life in and out of school. Kids often know about situations that could turn violent before adults do. Encourage your child to tell you, or a trusted adult at the school, about any potential trouble or danger. Review the school rules with your child, and make it clear that you support them. -
Saturday, October 29, 2022
Family meals are a recipe for school success
Sharing meals as a family gives parents and children a chance to communicate and support one another. That contributes to children's success in school. Family meals don't have to be fancy. The easier the food is to cook, the more time you'll have together. Let your child help. Include everyone in the conversation around the table. And if you can't eat dinner together, try breakfast, or dessert at the end of the day. -
Friday, October 28, 2022
Ask the questions that get kids talking about school
Sometimes, having a conversation with a child is like playing a game of 20 Questions. To encourage your child to tell you more, ask questions that can't be answered with a simple "yes" or "no." Instead, start with words like "what " or "how" or "tell me." For example: "What did you do in science today?" "How would you go about solving the problems in your math assignment?" "Tell me what you're doing on your social studies project." -
Thursday, October 27, 2022
How to find books that will turn your child on to reading
The "right" books for your child aren't necessarily expensive. What matters is that they make your child want to read them. Look for books that match your child's current interests. Choose books that are well-written, with strong plots and well-developed characters. Most of the words should be familiar to your child, but it's OK if a book is a little challenging. You can read it aloud now, and your child can read it independently later on.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages for September 2022
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Friday, September 30, 2022
Bedtime reading ends the day a special way
Finding time to read with your child can be a challenge. But with a little planning, bedtime reading can be one of the best parts of your day. Choose five books for the week and set them near your child's bed. Each day, say, "We'll read this book tonight. Tomorrow, we'll get to read another." This lets your child know that reading is an important part of your day, too. At breakfast, talk together about the book you read the night before. -
Thursday, September 29, 2022
Set up a study routine to foster positive habits
To help your child develop positive study habits, establish a regular time for doing schoolwork at home. Turn off digital devices and minimize background distractions. At the start, make sure your child reads and understands assignment directions. To foster management skills, have your child estimate how long each assignment will take, and time how long it really takes. Then show support by doing your own work quietly nearby. -
Wednesday, September 28, 2022
Choice and charts help children take responsibility for chores
Chores teach kids about responsibility. To get your kids to pitch in, write weekly chores on slips of paper. If a job has to be done daily, write it on six slips. Put the slips in a jar. Then make a chart with each child's name down the side and the days of the week across the top. Have your kids take turns drawing jobs. Let them choose what day to do them and put their chores on the chart. One day a week, don't assign chores. Just write, "See what you can do to help." -
Tuesday, September 27, 2022
Take time out for family
How can you help your family find more time for togetherness in a fast-paced world? Call a family "time out." Stop and talk about what you'd like to do as a family and how to achieve it. Set specific goals, such as eating dinner together four times a week. Post goals where you will all see them. Childhood doesn't last forever, so make family time a priority now. You'll have time for other activities later on. -
Monday, September 26, 2022
Help your child make deposits in a 'word bank'
Young writers often have trouble thinking of words to write. Making a word bank helps your child think of words in advance. Say a common word and ask your child to write a list of words with similar meanings. For "said," for example, your child might write words like "whined," "shouted," "whispered," "yelled," etc. Your child can also make lists of words about a particular topic. Collect the lists in a notebook "word bank." When writing, your child can check the bank to find just the right word.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages for August 2022
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Wednesday, August 31, 2022
Attendance is critical for your child's success
Children who miss school regularly fall behind and score lower on tests. They can have a hard time making and keeping friends. And frequent absences in elementary school can set a pattern that makes a child more likely to drop out of school later. Make school attendance a family priority. Don't let your child skip school for reasons other than illness or emergency. If your student regularly resists going to school, or your family is facing attendance obstacles, let the teacher or school counselor know. -
Tuesday, August 30, 2022
Try a kitchen timer to motivate your child
Kids hate to be told what to do. Nagging, arguing and scolding don't usually motivate them. But a kitchen timer can. When you want your child to do something, set the timer. Say, "Let's see if you can pick up your toys before the timer goes off." A timer also works to enforce a time limit: "When the timer rings in 15 minutes, it will be time for bed." -
Monday, August 29, 2022
Your child needs your time more than screen time
Too much of the wrong kinds of screen time isn't good for kids. And when parents focus on screens too much themselves, their children miss out on important family time. So turn off your devices and play board games with your child. Plant an herb garden together. Take a walk and look for unusual things. Try foods from a different country (and find the country on a map). Create a secret code. You'll be helping your child think and learn. -
Sunday, August 28, 2022
Promote safety on the way to school
Whether your child walks or bikes to school or just to the bus stop, ensuring safety along the way is vital. Choose a route with the fewest street crossings. Then walk it with your child. As you go, role-play situations your student might face. What can your child do if a large dog is in the path? If possible, arrange for your student to walk with a friend or family member each day. And be sure your child knows never to talk to or ride with strangers. -
Saturday, August 27, 2022
Celebrate achievements with a special photo
Setting goals is an effective way to motivate your child, in school and at home. Sometimes reaching a goal feels so good, it's all the reward students will need to keep going. But when your student reaches a tough goal, it's time to celebrate! One way is to take a picture of your child reaching the goal. Frame it and put it by your child's bed. Seeing themselves as achievers is a great way for students to start the day!
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages for July 2022
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Sunday, July 31, 2022
Set a fun tone for physical fitness
Research shows that physical fitness is linked to higher self-esteem and attentiveness in school. Encourage your child to get active by making it fun. Instead of saying, "It's time to exercise," plan a physical activity your child will like. When a friend comes to play, suggest games that involve movement, like Simon Says or Red Light, Green Light. On weekends, get your whole family moving together. -
Saturday, July 30, 2022
Share family photos to encourage writing
Here's an activity to try when summer boredom hits. Use your family photos to encourage your child to write. Look at the pictures together and discuss what you each remember about each one. Ask your child to choose a few to share with a friend or relative, and to write short descriptions to send along with them. -
Friday, July 29, 2022
A pet makes a great audience for reading aloud
Reading struggles can make children feel self-conscious about reading aloud. But it's important for them to practice so they can improve. When reading to people is scary, a family pet can be a nonjudgmental audience that will help your child feel at ease. If you don't have a pet, suggest that your child try reading to a favorite stuffed animal or two. -
Thursday, July 28, 2022
Suggest a different kind of journal this summer
Journaling over the summer is a great way for your child to keep writing skills sharp. If your student doesn't know what to write about, suggest keeping a research log. Have your child pick a favorite topic, such as swimming. Then your child can research facts about the topic and write about them. How are the different strokes done? How long are Olympic pools? Who holds records for swimming? -
Wednesday, July 27, 2022
Family well-being should be the reward for chores
Chores help children develop a sense of responsibility. But getting them to pitch in should be more like coaching a team than managing employees. Instead of offering payment for doing a routine chore, help your child learn that when everyone helps, a better home environment for all is the reward. Improve the experience by letting your child choose among several tasks, or by doing a special family activity after chore time.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages for June 2021-2022
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Thursday, June 30, 2022
Make summertime learning part of the fun
Summer is prime time for combining learning and fun. Try having a family spelling bee (give each family member words that are appropriate for their skills). Or add math to a family trip (How many miles until we get there? How much gas will we need? How many steps to climb the hill?). Try some science and history with your child, too. Learn the names of the bugs or trees you see. Talk about ways the world has changed over time. With a little thought, you can add some learning fun to every day. -
Wednesday, June 29, 2022
To reduce anxiety, turn down the volume
Is your child prone to stress and anxiety? Noise may be part of the problem. Loud, chaotic environments can contribute to anxiety and other issues that affect children's learning. Do what you can to eliminate background noise at home. For example, turn off the TV when no one is watching it. Or take your child someplace quiet to unwind. Regular routines can also help your child maintain a sense of order. -
Tuesday, June 28, 2022
There's no deadline for summer writing
The lazy days of summer are great for writing. Your child has time to dream, choose the right word and make revisions. Encourage your student to do some writing this summer. Provide a notebook to use as a journal. Encourage your child to observe and take notes about people and things, and then write stories about them. You might even help make a collection of your elementary schooler's writings that your child could give as a holiday gift. -
Monday, June 27, 2022
Help your child understand how fairness works
If you have more than one child, you've probably heard it: "That's not fair!" Kids have to learn that treating people equitably doesn't necessarily mean treating them the same. To explain, talk about different ways to achieve the same results. For example, one of your children might prefer to do assignments or chores in the evening, and another might do them early in the morning. It's not unfair to let each child do what works best for them. -
Sunday, June 26, 2022
Help your child make a reading connection
To encourage a love of reading, help your child get actively involved with the stories. One way is to ask your student to think about how things might have turned out differently. What if Laura Ingalls and her family had stayed in the big woods? You can also ask how a book is or isn't like your child's own life. "Have you ever felt like that? Would you have done what this character did? How might you have handled this situation differently?"
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages for May 2021-2022
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Tuesday, May 31, 2022
Offer your child a fun summer in a jar
To keep your child active and engaged this summer, create an "I'm bored" jar. Have your child make a list of fun activities. They should be things your child can do alone without your help. Ideas include painting a picture, writing a poem or going for a bike ride. Write each activity on a slip of paper and put it in a jar. When summer boredom strikes, have your child pull out a slip and do the activity. Not knowing which activity will come out may add a little zip to the day! -
Monday, May 30, 2022
How to support a frustrated student
Statements like, "I hate school!" or "I'm dumb!" are often signs that a child is frustrated with schoolwork. To help your child in this situation, share a story of how you struggled with something when you were young. Explain how you worked through it. Ask guiding questions to help your child come up with strategies to try. Then encourage your student to try again. If frustration persists, let the teacher know. -
Sunday, May 29, 2022
Make this a summer of learning for your child
Experts say that kids who don't use their school skills can lose months of learning over the summer. To help prevent this loss, have your child "do the math" when you shop or follow a recipe together. Set a regular daily reading time and visit the library often for new things to read. You can also plan activities around topics your child will cover next year. If it's state history, for example, perhaps your family could tour a local historic site. -
Saturday, May 28, 2022
When teaching respectful behavior, these rules apply
Does your child think that rules are for somebody else? To encourage the respectful behavior that supports learning, let your child see that you follow rules, too. Then look for other teachable moments: Talk about how characters behave in the books your child is reading or the shows you watch together. To help your child remember what's important, put more emphasis on good sportsmanship and improvement than on winning. -
Friday, May 27, 2022
Newspapers deliver daily reading practice
Reading the newspaper daily, in print or online, is a great way for kids to build reading skills. To encourage a newspaper habit, explore the sections together to find articles that interest your child. Have your student read an article to you each evening as you prepare dinner. Or play a game: Have your child turn a headline into a question, then read the article to see if the question is answered.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages for April 2021-2022
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Saturday, April 30, 2022
Treat mistakes as steps toward learning
To succeed in school, students must develop problem-solving and decision-making skills. But as they learn to solve problems independently, they are sure to make mistakes. Help your child see mistakes as opportunities to learn, rather than as failures. When your student makes an error, discuss it. Talk about ways your child can avoid it in the future. Emphasize that people get smarter when they learn from mistakes. -
Friday, April 29, 2022
Model the way to good character
When it comes to teaching character and values, your example is the most powerful teacher of all. Ask yourself, "If my child could watch my behavior all day, what lessons would it teach?" Set high standards for your own behavior as well as your child's. Talk with your child often about the values that are important to you. Some families make values a point of family pride. "In our family, we tell the truth." -
Thursday, April 28, 2022
Offer support during study time, but let your child do the work
Being involved when your child does assignments doesn't mean answering the questions or doing the work. That prevents your child from learning to do it. Instead, make sure your student understands the assignment. Have your child read the directions to you. Then ask, "Can you explain them in your own words?" At the end of each study session, review your child's completed work. This sends the message that you think it is important. -
Wednesday, April 27, 2022
A little competition can help children learn
Some students avoid competing with others. But competition can teach kids to handle conflict, work cooperatively and overcome challenges. For positive competitive experiences, encourage activities that build your child's self-image. Let your student choose among several activities, but make it clear you expect your child to stick to the choice for at least a few months. Then praise your child's efforts, no matter the outcome. -
Tuesday, April 26, 2022
Use your child's imagination to encourage writing
Many kids think of writing as work. But they love storytelling. Encourage your child to write by providing story starters that make writing fun. You might have your child imagine interviewing a famous book character. What questions would your student ask? What answers might the character give? Or, the next time your child asks, "What if …," say "Write down what you think might happen." The wilder your child's imagination, the better the story.
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Thursday, March 31, 2022
Sometimes, let your child learn by doing
Teaching your child new skills is important, and it can be a great way to spend time together. But kids often lose interest when everything feels like a lesson. So take a step back sometimes. Let your child decide how to tackle a project. You might ask if there is anything you can do to help. Remember that your child also learns a lesson from trying something that doesn't work. -
Wednesday, March 30, 2022
Help your child move forward after a setback
Setbacks can cause self-doubt for even the most positive kids. Help your child overcome setbacks by building skills for success. Demonstrate how to break down large tasks into smaller steps that are easier to master. Teach problem-solving skills, like brainstorming and evaluating solutions. Role-play challenging situations until your child feels comfortable handling them. And never put your child or yourself down. -
Tuesday, March 29, 2022
Teach your children to look for a solution, not a fight
Constant arguments are disruptive, at school and at home. To teach your children how to resolve a conflict without arguing, set some rules. When your children have a disagreement over something, they have to work together to find a fair solution. They should each tell their own side, then say what they need most. After that, it's up to them to try to figure out a way they both can get something they need. -
Monday, March 28, 2022
Ask questions to strengthen your child’s thinking skills
There are many ways you can help your child learn to think things through. One is by asking questions aloud, like "I wonder why that happened?" and then discussing possible reasons. You can also show interest in the questions the teacher is asking, as well as what is being taught. When your child expresses opinions, ask for facts that back them up. And when your student reads, ask "What do you think is the most important thing you read in that passage?" -
Sunday, March 27, 2022
Ask questions to connect actions and consequences
Kids who behave responsibly get along better with teachers and classmates. They are also more likely to try, follow through and succeed in school. To help your child connect actions to consequences, ask questions like "How do you think Avery felt when you said that?" Asking "What happened first?" or "Why do you think that happened?" also helps improve children's understanding of their role in a situation.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages for February 2021-2022
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Monday, February 28, 2022
Encourage your child to pick up a pen with fun writing activities
Encourage your child to write with activities that make writing fun. You might make a family cookbook and let your child name the recipes and write stories about times your family ate a particular dish. Or encourage your student to keep a journal of funny ideas, jokes and events. You can suggest making a photo album together and have your child write the captions. Or each of you write down and share your dreams for your child's future. -
Sunday, February 27, 2022
Teach values and behavior by example
Children learn by imitating. So be the kind of person you want your child to become. When you set goals for yourself and are conscientious about your work, your child learns that it is important to do these things. When you help your child with schoolwork even though you are tired, you show that education is a priority. Your small actions, repeated over and over, have the greatest impact on your child. -
Saturday, February 26, 2022
Listen to negative feelings, but don't encourage them
Some children seem to have been born with a negative outlook. You may not be able to change your child's personality, but you can make coping easier. First, accept the person your child is, outlook and all. But don't pay so much more attention to negativity than other feelings that your child learns to use it to get attention. Instead, listen to complaints so your child feels heard, then change the subject to something your student feels positive about. -
Friday, February 25, 2022
Create a schoolwork routine that works for your child
Some children have more trouble concentrating than others. That can make working on assignments at home challenging. Establishing a study routine will make it easier for your child to get down to work. Turn off the TV and other distractions, and encourage your child to make daily to-do lists. Together, break big tasks down into smaller chunks. Then -
Thursday, February 24, 2022
Offer honest answers to your child’s hard questions
Discussing tough issues with your child is part of parenting. But how do you get your child to open up about worries or challenges? Say that you will always answer your child's questions. Then when you do, be truthful, but don't feel you have to provide every detail. If you don't know an answer, you might say, "What a good question. Let's find out together." And if you can't answer right away, say something like, "I want to answer that. Let's talk about it after dinner." Then follow through.
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Monday, January 31, 2022
Encourage the qualities that make your child a good friend
Having friends at school contributes to students' positive feelings about education. To help your child be a good friend, explain that friends are respectful, polite and listen to what others have to say. Talk together about good sportsmanship and the importance of standing up for what's right without being rude. Encourage your child to be friendly, smile at classmates and say "hi."
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Sunday, January 30, 2022
Guide your child to better decision-making
Making good decisions is key to becoming an independent learner. When there is a decision to make, guide your child's thinking by asking questions. For example, you might ask what could happen if your child chooses one toy over another at the store. Which toy would your child play with more? It is also important to let your child learn from choices. Living with the results of a poor choice helps kids make a better one next time.
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Saturday, January 29, 2022
Movies offer great chances to talk about real life
Part of managing screen time is making it count. Use movie nights to jump-start the conversations that build parent-child connections. Watching families on the screen offers you an opportunity to discuss how they interact and how you would like your family to interact. Let the way a movie character deals with a problem, such as drugs or divorce, prompt a conversation with your child about your family's values.
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Friday, January 28, 2022
Simple habits keep students organized for success
Students who lack organizational skills lose school papers and materials, forget what they are supposed to do and don't turn in schoolwork on time. Encourage your child to track assignments and due dates in a notebook or planner. Then, have your student create a list each day of everything that needs to be done that day, and check completed items off the list. Establishing these habits will keep your child on track for school success.
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Thursday, January 27, 2022
Use positive ways to promote better writing
When your child shows you a piece of writing, your response can be discouraging or motivating. Instead of pointing out mistakes, begin by praising something specific. "This phrase is very lively!" Next, comment on the point your child is making. Is it clear? Ask questions to help your student clarify or add details, such as "Can you give some reasons why you think that?" Then leave the revisions up to your child.
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Friday, December 31, 2021
Help your child get organized for a great new year
As you and your child make plans for 2022, resolve to help him get organized. Do activities together that involve sorting or classifying. Help him figure out the time it takes to do things and show him how to break big projects into smaller steps. Encourage him to organize his things by providing bins, baskets and boxes to put them in. And develop consistent routines for completing recurring tasks.
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Thursday, December 30, 2021
Don't be in a rush to eliminate boredom
You're worn to a frazzle trying to get your child to all her practices, activities and meetings. "At least she's not bored," you say. But a little boredom from time to time can actually encourage kids to be creative. It can inspire your child to draw, read a book or build a fort from a blanket and chairs. Too much boredom can be bad, but if you and your child never have a minute to spare, a little might be a good thing.
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Wednesday, December 29, 2021
Learning 'gifts' and disabilities can go hand in hand
Did you know that children can be both gifted and have learning disabilities? Does your child focus so intently on one activity that it is difficult to shift attention to another task? Does your child have an above average vocabulary, but also struggle with speaking, reading, writing or doing math problems? Ask the school about how to help children who have both gifts and disabilities. Work together to support your child.
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Tuesday, December 28, 2021
Reinforce the connection between school and life
One of the best ways to be involved in your child's education is to show him how what he is learning in school relates to life outside the classroom. You can do this by pointing to specific things as they occur ("I am using fractions to follow this recipe") and by talking about the things your education has enabled you to do. Explain things you are learning now, and emphasize that learning is valuable and continues throughout life.
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Monday, December 27, 2021
Learning is the prize in a fun library scavenger hunt
Going on a scavenger hunt at the library is a fun way to help your child learn where to find certain kinds of information. Write down some facts for your child to find, then help her identify where she could look. You might start with: The capital of each state in the U.S. The height of the world's tallest building. A list of Beethoven's symphonies. A recipe for chocolate chip cookies. Need help? Ask a librarian.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages for November 2021-2022
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Tuesday, November 30, 2021
Build math recall with flash cards
Using flash cards to quiz your child is a great way to help him learn math facts. You can have him write or say the answer as you show him the problem. Or have him write a problem that fits the answer. Flash cards are a perfect way to fill odd moments. Just keep sessions short and frequent. Spend more time with math facts that are harder, and end each session with praise for your child's efforts.
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Monday, November 29, 2021
Create afternoon routines for easier mornings
"Where is my library book?" "I can't find my math worksheet!" If your mornings sound like this, add some routines to the afternoon. Designate a special box for your child's school materials. As soon as she walks in the door, have her go to that box to unload. After completing assignments, she should put them back in the box. Each evening, your child can pack the contents of the box into her backpack, ready for the next day.
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Sunday, November 28, 2021
Keep the focus of sports on sportsmanship
If pressure is taking the fun out of sports for your child, talk with him about what it means to be a good sport. Remind him that fun should come first. If everyone is having fun, winning and losing don't seem so important. Make sure your child understands the rules of the game, too. Praise good sportsmanship when you see it, and always be a good sport yourself. Cheer for all the kids on both teams, not just yours.
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Saturday, November 27, 2021
Start with easy questions to keep communication flowing
If you worry about whether you'll be able to talk to your child when she's a teen, you're not alone. Worrying won't help, but good communication habits will. One helpful way to get a quiet child to talk is to ask specific questions, such as "What was the best thing that happened today?" Start with questions that aren't threatening, like "What do you think of this picture in the catalog?" Try it when you're relaxing together.
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Friday, November 26, 2021
Help your child feel competent to tackle challenges
Competence leads to confidence. To give your child the confidence to face challenges in school and in life, help him improve his organizational skills, so he'll always have what he needs. Also, give him plenty of opportunities to express his opinions and have them taken seriously. Talk to your child about how you handle your work challenges, too. Your attitude will inspire similar behavior from your child.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages for October 2021-2022
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Sunday, October 31, 2021
Pumpkin math is a seasonal treat
Today is a great day to do some pumpkin math with your child! Get your child a pumpkin, and then have him: Estimate how much the pumpkin weighs. Weigh the pumpkin, and then add or subtract to see how much heavier or lighter it is than his estimate. Estimate, and then measure, how many inches the pumpkin is around at its widest point (its circumference). Count its seeds by fives, 10s and 20s.
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Saturday, October 30, 2021
Encourage reading, one chapter at a time
Get your child excited about the idea of reading by introducing her to the pleasures of chapter books. Find a book you think she will enjoy. It could be a classic or a new book recommended by the librarian. Have your child read (or you read to her) just one chapter a night. Then talk about the story. Ask your child to predict what will happen next. If she enjoys the book, see if it has a sequel and read that one, too!
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Friday, October 29, 2021
Discuss ways to respond to bullying
Bullying can damage children physically and emotionally. It can also affect their ability to do well in school. If your child is being picked on, talk to him about things he can do to stop it, such as ignoring the bully and walking away. Carefully monitor the situation, and if the bullying continues or gets worse, take action: Talk to the school principal or counselor and work together to resolve the issue.
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Thursday, October 28, 2021
Create a routine to take the hassle out of homework
Homework isn't on most kids' lists of favorite things. But it doesn't have to be a hassle. To make study time go more easily at your house, set a regular weekday homework time. If your child is irritable or tired, give her a healthy snack before she starts work. Hunger can be a big distraction. It may also help to give her 30 minutes to run around outside and blow off steam before settling down.
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Wednesday, October 27, 2021
Reading brings the world to your home
Sometimes a pretend trip can be just as fun as a real one. You and your child can "visit" Italy, Argentina, Thailand or anywhere else…by way of the public library and the internet. Choose a country and ask each family member to gather information about it. Then plan a dinner of dishes from that country (check out a cookbook from the library) and discuss the interesting facts each of you has learned from your reading.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages September 2021-2022
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Thursday, September 30, 2021
Reach out to the counselor with questions or concerns about school
Whether your child is facing pandemic-related issues or you have more typical learning or development questions, the school counselor is a great resource. Here are just a few of the issues you can talk about together: Concerns about schoolwork and school access. Worries about any social or discipline issues. Your child's strengths, limitations or special needs. Thoughts about your student's education goals. Counselors even help elementary schoolers begin to think about career interests.
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Wednesday, September 29, 2021
Families are valued partners in education
There is a mountain of evidence showing that family engagement makes a big difference in children's education. Your involvement can improve student achievement and attendance, and give your child a more positive attitude toward school. Plus, you'll get a better understanding of school programs and policies. Ask the teacher or principal how you can get involved.
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Tuesday, September 28, 2021
Give your child the facts about tough topics
Experts say the best time to begin talking to kids about difficult issues is when they are between ages nine and 11. They're old enough to grasp the complexity of an issue. But they're still young enough to listen. When you talk together, find out what your child already knows. Share facts without exaggerating, and explain your position. Then set a good example by making sure your actions support your words.
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Monday, September 27, 2021
Use a conversation game to find out about school
To encourage conversations about school, play a game called "My Day, Your Day." In the evening, let your child ask you a question about your day. After you answer, you get to ask a question about his day. This helps him feel involved instead of interrogated. Ask questions that require more than a one-word answer. Specific questions, like "What did you do in math today?" are better than general ones like "How was your day?"
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Sunday, September 26, 2021
Turn family activities into bedtime stories
Have you run out of bedtime story ideas? Try giving your characters names that rhyme with family members' names. Then have the characters relive family events or look forward to the next day's activities. This is also a good way to reinforce good behavior: If your family is going on an outing the next day, the characters could make their parents happy by getting ready on time without fighting.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages August 2021-2022
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Tuesday, August 31, 2021
Show that education matters at home as well as at school
To show your child how important her education is to you, reinforce the idea that you and the school are on the same team: hers. Help her understand that the things she learns at school matter at home, too. Make school attendance a top priority, expect your child to complete assignments, and set aside at least 20 minutes a day for the whole family to pursue pleasure reading.
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Monday, August 30, 2021
Involve your child's senses in learning math
To sharpen your child's math skills, mix math into activities that use a variety of senses. For sight, you might ask him to look at an analog clock and tell you the time. Then ask: "If Dad gets home at 6:30, how long will it be until we see him?" For hearing, read a recipe aloud and have your child follow its instructions. It's a great way for him
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Sunday, August 29, 2021
Three school supplies make all the difference
It's school supply season! But you won't find three key things your child needs for school in a store. To supply your child with concentration, organization and motivation, set a regular study time and make sure she has a distraction-free place to work. Teach her to use checklists to keep track of things she needs to do. Most importantly, talk to your child each day about what she's learning in school.
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Saturday, August 28, 2021
Instill the skills that help kids make and be good friends
Children with strong ties to school friends tend to feel more enthusiastic and confident about school. To instill positive friendship skills, teach your child that good friends are kind and respect people's differences. Encourage your child to be friendly and say "hi" first. Demonstrate how to be a good sport and how to stand up for what's right without being aggressive.
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Friday, August 27, 2021
Don't wait to model timely work habits
Don't put off until tomorrow what you can do today. If you do, your child might learn to do the same and his school performance will suffer. To set a good example, avoid delaying tasks. If you say you're going to do something, do it! Let your child see you prioritizing tasks and breaking big jobs into small parts. Explain that it's easier to tackle one small job at a time.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages July 2021-2022
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Saturday, July 31, 2021
Include writing in your regular summer routine
It takes practice to write well. Consider establishing a writing "ritual" for your family. Pick a special time period, such as the duration of summer vacation. Get everyone a notebook (a thin one won't overwhelm your child). Choose a regular time of day you'll all write, and stick with it. You can help your child get started by letting her pick a family photo or magazine picture to write a story about.
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Friday, July 30, 2021
Show your child that the dictionary is interesting reading
One way to expand your child's vocabulary is by encouraging him to browse in the dictionary. Get a children's dictionary with lots of pictures. Leaf through it together and look for new and interesting words. Read the definitions. Talk about the pictures. Ask your child what he thinks a new word might mean, or if he knows similar words. He may just develop a lifetime love of words.
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Thursday, July 29, 2021
Point out the useful ways you read
Children learn by watching their parents. And when you talk about what you are doing, you make it easier for your child to learn. If you are cooking, for example, you might say, "I'm looking for a cake recipe. I don't have time to read all the recipes in this cookbook, so I'm going to turn to the index in the back. Here under the letter C is a recipe for chocolate cake." Now your child understands more about how an index works.
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Wednesday, July 28, 2021
Balance negativity by pointing out the positive
Is your child a "glass half-empty" kind of kid? Some people are more pessimistic than others by nature. But that doesn't mean you can't help your child see the sunnier side of life. Remind him of good times and successes he's had. And if he says he'll never understand something, sit down and offer support as he figures it out. Show him that he can solve "impossible" problems if he keeps trying.
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Tuesday, July 27, 2021
Commercials are prime time for conversation
Don't let TV shut down family conversations. Instead, use it to start them. "Half-hour" TV shows are typically 22 minutes of program and eight minutes of commercials. Use those eight minutes to ask your child to think critically about the program. Does she think the characters and settings are realistic, or not? Does the plot make sense? What other choices could the characters have made?
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages April thru June 2020-2021
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Wednesday, June 30, 2021
Remember the funny side of discipline
Discipline is serious business, but that doesn't mean you can't have a sense of humor about it. Humor can diffuse a tense situation, motivate children to act appropriately, and even help them see the error of their ways. For example, instead of sending your foot-stamping, cookie-demanding first grader to time-out, join the protest. Stamp and demand every sweet possible. Your child may be too distracted to keep up a tantrum.
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Tuesday, June 29, 2021
Put your child's personality on a poster
Creating an "all about me" poster with your child is a great way to celebrate what makes her special. It's also a good way to learn more about her. Look through magazines and catalogs together for pictures of things your family has done. Find images of things your child likes, like pets, foods and clothes. Have her arrange and paste the pictures on a large sheet of paper. Then encourage her to write a few words about each.
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Monday, June 28, 2021
Look for opportunities to encourage conversation
Meaningful conversations with your child are hard to schedule; they happen when they happen. But there are things you can do to encourage them. Many children prefer to talk while they are doing other things. Find the time when your child is most likely to open up: while doing dishes, for example. Use this time for conversation. To keep it going, ask him follow-up questions, like "What happened next?"
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Sunday, June 27, 2021
Learn about Helen Keller, a model of resilience
Helen Keller was born on this day in 1880. Although she was deaf and blind, she graduated from college and became a famous writer and activist. To teach your child about this model of determination, check out a biography of Keller or watch the film "The Miracle Worker" together. Then go online to learn more about how blind people overcome challenges, such as by using the Braille alphabet.
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Saturday, June 26, 2021
Make learning part of the fun this summer
To combine learning and fun this summer, try having a family spelling bee (give each family member words that are appropriate for their skills). Or add math to a family outing (How many miles until we get there? How much gas will we need? How many steps to climb the hill?). Ask questions about things you see in nature and try to find the answers. You can also tell family stories that connect history to your child's life.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages March 2020-2021
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Sunday, April 4, 2021
Foster learning in easy ways
You don't have to be a teacher to make a difference in your child's education. Here are a few simple, meaningful ways to be involved: Put an encouraging note where your child will find it. Administer discipline with kindness and consistency. Accept that your child's best efforts are more important than his grades. Then celebrate his progress together, and tell your child you love him every day.
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Saturday, April 3, 2021
Brighten a rainy day with an alphabet challenge
If April showers have your child bored indoors, challenge her to put her room "in ABC order." If your child is young, ask her to pick a letter and find an object in her room that starts with that letter. Then she can find an object for each letter of the alphabet. If your child is older, she can write down names of several items for each letter in alphabetical order. Set a time limit to make it exciting!
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Friday, April 2, 2021
Model attentive listening, now and later
You want your child to listen attentively in class. When you listen attentively to him, it helps him learn by example. But it can be difficult to give your undivided attention when you're trying to get dinner on the table, the dog is barking and a delivery truck has just arrived. If your child is trying to talk to you in a setting that makes it hard to listen, set a time to talk later, when things are calmer. Then follow through.
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Thursday, April 1, 2021
Use a weather project to build graphing skills
Help your child practice graphing by making a weather chart. On an April calendar, have her write down (or draw a picture of) each day's weather. At the end of the month, she can count the number of sunny, rainy or cloudy days and make a simple bar graph. Help her use her graph to answer questions, such as, "Were there more sunny or rainy days?" and "Which conditions happened least often?"
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Wednesday, March 31, 2021
Enlarge your child's vocabulary with a few big words
Your child's vocabulary may be filled with short, simple words. But you don't have to speak to him in small words. Expand his vocabulary by using some "big" words occasionally. Children naturally mimic the adults around them, so to teach your child a new word, use it often. Define it. Use it in another sentence. Relate it to words your child already knows ("This book is so interesting; it's captivating!").
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages February 2020-2021
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Sunday, February 28, 2021
Five things teachers really want from parents
Teamwork between home and school can make a big difference to your child's learning. Here are five things teachers wish all families would do: 1. Build your child's confidence with praise and love. 2. Discuss the school day and the things your child is learning with her. 3. Support your child's effort with schoolwork. 4. Schedule some relaxed reading time each evening. 5. Partner with the teachers to support your child -
Saturday, February 27, 2021
Experiment with fractions your child can see
Some children find fractions more intimidating than whole numbers. Hands-on activities can help your child see and understand the concepts. Try this one: Give him some measuring cups and two identical glasses. Have him pour one cup of water into the first glass. Then have him guess: How many half-cups will it take to fill the other glass to the same level? How many quarter cups? One-third cups? Let him experiment to find out. -
Friday, February 26, 2021
No-nag strategies help your child keep track of responsibilities
Nobody likes to be nagged. But kids need to be reminded of their responsibilities once in a while. Here are some no-nag solutions: Teach your child to write tasks on a to-do list in order of importance and cross them off as they are finished. You can also make a job chart that lists responsibilities, when they should be done and by whom. Then you can just point to the chart. Or create a "daily reminder box" that family members can check -
Thursday, February 25, 2021
When kids teach, they also learn
Sometimes, the best way to remember something is by teaching it to someone else. The next time your child is studying for a test, have her make up her own test on the topic and ask you the questions. Take the test, then let her explain the answers to you. You'll learn what she knows (and where she's a little fuzzy), and she'll solidify the information in her memory. -
Wednesday, February 24, 2021
Be clear about the behavior you want to see
"Don't forget your jacket." "Don't run in the street." Sometimes it seems like adults fill kids' heads with all the things they're not supposed to do. The problem is that young children often tune out the word "don't." Instead, tell your child what you DO want him to do: "Take your jacket. Stay on the sidewalk."
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages JANUARY 2020-2021
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Sunday, January 31, 2021
Who will your child call in an emergency?
Does your child know who to call in an emergency? Don't wait for a crisis to find out. You should have these numbers programmed in your cell phone and posted by every telephone in your home: Police, fire and emergency responders (911); parents' work phone and cell phone; a nearby neighbor; relatives. Teach your child which number to call in different circumstances, and what to say. -
Saturday, January 30, 2021
Create a family yearbook with your child
Family bonds give children a sense of security. One way to foster this important connection is to have your child help you preserve family memories in a yearbook. Throughout the year, collect photos of family events and have your child put them in an album. Add things that remind you each of special times: a recipe you all loved, a leaf found on an autumn walk. Encourage your child to write captions. -
Friday, January 29, 2021
Make math tasty with an estimation game
Estimation is an important part of math. Here's a fun way for your child to practice estimating: Get two large glasses of the same size. Fill one with something small (like dry beans). Fill the other with something large (like cookies). Have your child estimate how many pieces are in each glass. Then have her count to check her answer. Finally, enjoy the cookies together! -
Thursday, January 28, 2021
One activity will help your child every day
One of the most important things you can do to help your child succeed in school is to read aloud together. It introduces young children to the world of books, and even older kids love to be read to. Make reading aloud together a daily priority. To keep it interesting, be sure to read books you enjoy. And sometimes, build your child's vocabulary by reading books that are a little too hard for him to read alone. -
Wednesday, January 27, 2021
Create silly sentences to make facts memorable
Studying for a test usually involves memorizing. Your child can remember lists of items by writing a sentence using words that begin with the first letter of each word in the list. For example, the first letter of each word in "My Very Educated Mother Just Served Us Noodles" stands for the first letters of the planets: Mercury, Venus, Earth, Mars, Jupiter, Saturn, Uranus and Neptune.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages DECEMBER 2020-2021
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Thursday, December 31, 2020
Make new goals as clear as a bell
Ring in the New Year by helping your child improve her schoolwork habits. Help her identify negative habits she wants to get rid of and decide on new positive habits she'd like to embrace. Next, have your child cut some bell shapes out of paper. Write the habits your child wants to stop and start on the bells and hang them from some colorful streamers. Then ring out the old and ring in the new! -
Wednesday, December 30, 2020
Reaffirm your commitment to help your child
Families have made a vital difference in education this year. 2020 may be over, but the need for your involvement continues until your child graduates. As we head into 2021, consider making this parent pledge: "I promise to monitor schoolwork and talk about school. I will expect my child to give school his best effort. I will read with him every day. I will tell my child I love him and I know he can do well." -
Tuesday, December 29, 2020
Token earning can motivate learning
When learning something new, some children respond well to learning incentives. These are rewards your child earns for things she has done. Give points or tokens when your child does what's expected. Take them away when she doesn't. Let her trade the tokens for play time or small prizes. Don't make it too difficult to earn them, or your child may end up feeling defeated.
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Monday, December 28, 2020
Prepare your child to tackle challenges
Competence leads to confidence. To give your child the confidence to face academic and life challenges, help him improve his organizational skills, so he'll always have what he needs. Also, give him plenty of opportunities to express his opinions and have them taken seriously. Talk to your child about how you handle your work challenges, too. Your attitude will inspire similar behavior from your child.
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Sunday, December 27, 2020
Whip up some enthusiasm for spelling
Here's a fun idea to help your child master the alphabet and the spelling of simple words: Spread a layer of whipped cream on a dark-colored tray or plate. Have your child use her finger to write letters and words. Mistakes are easily wiped away, and correct spelling is quickly rewarded with a lick of a finger.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages NOVEMBER 2020-2021
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Monday, November 2, 2020
Three daily ways to support your child
From day to day, you may be helping your child with schoolwork in many different ways. But three things, according to research, will help every day. The first is making class attendance a priority, whether your child is learning at home or at school. The second is reading together. The third is managing recreational screen time. When the school day is over, turn off the screens and encourage your child to read, play games, exercise or think.
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Tuesday, November 3, 2020
Expect your child to try hard and learn well
Expectations matter. When you let your child know that you expect him to give schoolwork his best effort, he is more likely to do well. If you don’t expect him to work hard, he won't. And if you make him think he is a poor student, that is what he’ll probably be. Keep in mind, however, that even the best student will make mistakes. Your child needs to know that is OK, and he can learn from his mistakes. -
Wednesday, November 4, 2020
Try a sweet way to encourage independence
You want your child to ask for help with schoolwork when she needs it. But some kids ask for help with every problem. To encourage your child to try to figure things out for herself, put out a bowl with a few small treats, like candies or grapes. When she asks for help, give it, but remove a treat. When the treats are gone, so is the help. Tell your child she can eat anything left in the bowl when her work is complete.
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Thursday, November 5, 2020
Accomplishment is worth a little struggle
If you rush to solve your child's every problem, you send the message that you don't think he can manage by himself. When kids work problems out for themselves, it makes them feel competent and confident. That's why sometimes, it's best to let your child struggle through a problem on his own. Offer support and encouragement ("I know you can figure this out"), and then give him some space. -
Friday, November 6, 2020
Give your child the confidence to speak up
Speaking in front of others, in a classroom or online, doesn't come naturally to all kids. But you can build your child's public speaking confidence by being an attentive listener. Start by paying attention when she talks. Show your interest and look her in the eye. Then be patient; don't interrupt to correct her or give an opposing view. Let your child express her opinion before you give yours.
eTips: Daily Parent Engagement Messages OCTOBER 2020-2021
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Monday, October 26, 2020
How to help when your child is frustrated
Statements like, "I hate school!" or "I'm dumb!" are often signs that a child is frustrated with schoolwork. To help your child in this situation, share a story of how you struggled with something when you were young. Explain how you worked through it. Ask guiding questions to help him come up with strategies he could use. Then encourage him to try again. If frustration persists, let the teacher know. -
Tuesday, October 27, 2020
Show your child what subtraction looks like
If your child is having difficulty with subtraction basics, try using paper clips to show her what subtraction looks like. Suppose she must subtract 8 from 16. Make a chain of 16 paper clips. Have your child count them. Then she can count again as you remove eight clips, one at a time. Finally, have her count the remaining clips. Visual aids like this can help kids get a clearer idea of math concepts.
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Wednesday, October 28, 2020
Help your child check for writing quality
Before your child hands in a writing assignment, help him review it. Give him this checklist of questions to ask himself: 1. Does his writing make sense? Are the facts correct? 2. Does each paragraph connect logically to the ones before and after? 3. Are his sentences complete? Do subjects and verbs agree? 4. Are all the words spelled correctly? Are any overused? 5. Is his final draft neat and legible?
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Thursday, October 29, 2020
With your help, your child can do great things
Research makes it clear: All parents, no matter their own level of education, can help their children succeed academically. To do it, set high (but still realistic) goals for your child. Then stress the importance of persistence, and praise her effort and progress. Be firm about limits and enthusiastic about school. Show respect for your child's ideas, and share your family's values. -
Friday, October 30, 2020
Predictable books help kids connect with reading
Children who are just learning to read need books that help them along. When you choose books for your child, look for text with rhythm and rhyme, and repeated words and sentences. Predictable plots and events that follow a natural time sequence make it easier for young readers to follow the story. So do pictures that provide clues to what is happening. A plot or character your child can relate to will boost interest.